Book recommendation: Heidi By Johanna Spyri

Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs and I read Heidi by Johanna Spyri this month and today we are answering some discussion questions about the book. This was the first time reading the book for both of us.

For those who have never read this classic book, this is a book about a young, orphaned girl who is sent to live with her grandfather on a Swiss mountain in his tiny hut. He’s been living in the hut, all alone, for years due to various reasons. Everyone in the little town at the bottom of the mountain thinks he is a horrible, cranky person and are horrified when Heidi’s aunt takes her to live with him.

It turns out that Uncle Alp, as her grandfather is called, is not what he seems, and in a good way.

As the story unfolds, Heidi will get to know him and their neighbors, which includes the goat herder Peter and his mother and grandmother, better.

Heidi lived with her aunt and her other grandmother previously and was rarely allowed to go out and play. Now she can go and play and roam the mountains and she loves it.

Just when she gets comfortable, though, her aunt returns and a new, scarier, adventure unfolds.

This is a sweet, touching book written much earlier than I thought it had been written. It was written in 1880 and was translated into English from its original German. In addition to calling it sweet and touching I would also call it heartwarming. Is it a bit unrealistic at times? Absolutely and to me that is totally fine. This is a children’s book after all. They are allowed to be that way and often needed by both children and adults.

Erin and I read The Puffin in Bloom Collection version, with a translation from Eileen Hall, which was first published in 1956 and published for this edition in 2014.

One thing Erin and I were surprised about Heidi was that she is not the blond, blue-eyed child illustrated on many of the covers of the books or in some movie versions. She actually had short, dark hair.

This 2016 movie version probably shows the characters the most accurately from the book. I think I might watch this at the end of the month:

At the end of this post, I’ll share some quotes I enjoyed from the book.

  1. Quick, first five words that pop into your head about Heidi.

Delightful. Fun. Sweet. Emotional. Inspiring.

2. Would you slam two big mugs of goat milk back-to-back, and why is the answer no? What about one mug? 

That would be a no because I tried goat milk before and I did not like it. Maybe it needed to be colder or something because it tasted like a barn smells. I don’t know how else to describe that.

3. Was Uncle Alp making goat cheese, like chevre?

I imagine he was making goat cheese as they ate a lot of it, but I don’t know what kind.

4. Write a beautiful description of a natural place you’ve been to, a sunset, a plant or animal you’ve seen.

A large rock jutted out from the tree and brush-covered hillside to overlook sprawling, green farmland, a twisting river with sunlight sparkling off of it, and trees clustered together in bright oranges, reds, and yellows. A bald eagle flew by at eye-level and clouds looked as if they could be reached out and touched. It was no surprise that locals said this place once served as a prayer rock for the Native American tribes that first settled the land here.

5. Heidi, like Anne of Green Gables, loves her home and has favorite aspects, like the fir trees, the wind, the fire sunset on the mountain. Is there anything in nature you cherish about your home, the way that she does? 

I used to love the large tree outside our house but it was cut down last year. Now I admire the other trees in my backyard and in our area I love to look at the hillsides covered with pine trees and maple trees.

6. In the same vein, what are some small things you are grateful for?

I am grateful for cozy evenings where I can watch an old movie while cuddled under a blanket.

7. Which character, besides Heidi, is your favorite and why?

I love Grandmama. She knows how to get things done, while also being kind and caring for others.

8.  What character did you like the least and why?

Mrs. Rottenmeir. Her name says it all. She was just rotten! She was mean to Heidi and Clara and just a very bitter woman. I couldn’t understand why the Mr. Seseman kept her in his employment.

9. There is a part in the book where Heidi longs for home? Has there ever been a time in your life where you have longed for home?

Absolutely. When I had my children and wanted to get out of the hospital but especially in 2021 when I was in the hospital with Covid for 5 days and could not wait to get home with my family.

10.  Do you think you would like to live in a small hut in the Swiss mountains, miles away from a town?

I might  like doing this during warmer weather but not so much during the winter and only if I had WiFi.

Here are a few quotes from the book that I enjoyed:

“Listen to me,” she said. “If we’re in trouble and can’t tell any ordinary person, why, there is always God, whom we can tell, and if we ask Him to help us, He always will.”


“God certainly knows of some happiness for us which He is going to bring out of the trouble, only we must have patience and not run away. And then all at once something happens and we see clearly ourselves that God has had some good thought in His mind all along; but because we cannot see things beforehand, and only know how dreadfully miserable we are, we think it is always going to be so.”


“It was so lovely, Heidi stood with tears pouring down her cheeks, and thanked God for letting her come home to it again. She could find no words to express her feelings, but lingered until the light began to fade and then ran on.”


“No,” he replied. “You see, today I am happy, as I had never thought to be again. Much happier than I deserve. It’s good to feel at peace with God and man. It was a good day when God sent you to me.”


Outside the moon was struggling with the dark, fast-driving clouds, which at one moment left it clear and shining, and the next swept over it, and all again was dark. Just now the moonlight was falling through the round window straight on to Heidi’s bed. She lay under the heavy coverlid, her cheeks rosy with sleep, her head peacefully resting on her little round arm, and with a happy expression on her baby face as if dreaming of something pleasant. The old man stood looking down on the sleeping child until the moon again disappeared behind the clouds and he could see no more, then he went back to bed.


“The happiest of all things is when an old friend comes and greets us as in former times; the heart is comforted with the assurance that some day everything that we have loved will be given back to us.—”


Have you read Heidi? What did you think of it?

You can see Erin’s post about the book here

Classic Movie Impressions: It’s Love I’m After (Spring of Bette)

An arrogant, self-absorbed, womanizing stage actor and the actress who keeps putting up with him are the main characters in It’s Love I’m After, a 1937 romantic comedy starring Bette Davis, Leslie Howard, and Olivia De Havilland.

I stumbled on this one by accident while looking for Bette Davis movies to add to my Spring of Bette Davis feature and ended up absolutely loving it.

I didn’t even know it was a comedy when I started it, but when the pair started insulting each other in loud whispers during a scene from Romeo and Juliet, I knew this movie was going to be very entertaining.

And it was very entertaining, very funny, and a very nice surprise.

Leslie Howard plays the part of Basil Underwood, a famous stage actor who women fall all over.

Bette plays his co-star and on-again-off-again girlfriend, Joyce Arden, who joins Leslie’s drama with her own drama. In the beginning, we see the two sniping at each other right after their performance, going back to the hotel and continuing their arguing through the door separating their rooms.

It is at the hotel where we meet Basil’s valet Digges played by Eric Blore. Their interaction reminded me so much of Jeeves and Bertie Wooster in the Jeeves books by P.G. Wodehouse. I absolutely loved their bantering, bickering, and joking.

They have this whole routine where Digges either gives or takes away points from Basil based on his behavior, and Basil’s behavior is often not good because he is frequently running off with married women or breaking hearts, all while in a relationship with Joyce.

Leslie Howard and Eric Blore

Joyce and Basil have decided they are going to get married early on in the movie, but there is one problem. After their performance at the beginning of the movie, a young woman named Marcia West (De Havilland) comes to visit Basil and tells him she is in love with him. This is very exciting for him because, you know, he loves women and the attention of women. Marcia leaves without telling him her name, and Basil is left with a well-stroked ego.

Once he and Joyce have decided to marry, and Joyce has closed herself in her room to get ready to leave for the wedding at a justice of the peace, Marcia’s fiancé,  Henry Grant Jr. (Patrick Knowles) shows up and tells Basil he’s angry at him because Marica is in love with him.

Leslie Howard and Bette Davis

There is this whole hilarious scene where Basil says the situation reminds him of a play he was once in and he and Digges act it out for Henry, who is bewildered and annoyed.

The play they act out is about a woman who is in love with a man, but the man wants to shake the woman, so he acts like a cad to get rid of her.

Henry is delighted and says that is what he wants Basil to do — come to Marcia’s family’s house that weekend and be an absolute jerk so she will be fall out of love with him.

What follows is an absolutely hilarious second act that had me in stitches. Olivia was absolutely perfect as a celebrity-obsessed woman, and Leslie was perfect as the arrogant, self-absorbed star.

The cast was just so perfect together.

There is one line that isn’t really a spoiler, so I just have to share it — at one point Olivia says that she was obsessed with Clark Gable for a month and Leslie says, “Who’s Clark Gable?”

I felt like such a nerd when I said, to myself because my daughter was not listening, “Do you know why that’s so funny? It’s so funny because Leslie, Olivia, and Clark were all in Gone with the Wind together and in that movie Olivia’s character was in love with Leslie’s character and Clark was in a relationship with Vivien Leigh.” Then I snorted a laugh.

Gone With the Wind was released two years after this movie. I thought it would have been funny if It’s Love I’m After had been made after Gone with The Wind.

Leslie Howard wanted the movie made to give himself a break after appearing in mostly heavy dramatic roles like The Petrified Forest (1936) and Romeo and Juliet (1936), according to TCM.

Producer Hal Willis wasn’t sure about Leslie’s ability to pull of comedy, but did accept the suggestion for the film. Casey Robinson wrote the screenplay, and Archie Mayo directed.

Leslie originally wanted a comedic actress from the stage, like Gertrude Lawrence or Ina Claire to play opposite him but after a few failed attempts, the picture began production without a leading lady.

Finally, Wallis decided that Bette Davis could use a change of pace after intensely dramatic roles in Marked WomanKid Galahad and That Certain Woman (all 1937).

Bette wasn’t so sure, though. She’d turned out a lot of films in a short time and actually wanted a break. This would be her third film with Leslie, and she liked working with him but didn’t like that he was going to receive top billing above her. The two had had a strained relationship during the filming of Of Human Bondage when Leslie was cold and dismissive and said to resent the fact an American had been cast in a very British story. He’d also run hot and cold during the filming of The Petrified Forest, sometimes ignoring her, and also, she said, coming on to her “rather crudely.”

In It’s Love I’m After he turned his attention to Olivia, reportedly driving her nuts with his persistence in trying to woo her.

Olivia De Havilland and Leslie Howard

If it sounds like his character wasn’t too far off from the real Leslie, then you’d be right. He was known to be a womanizer, despite being married, and had many affairs.

Bette finally agreed to accept the role, but did ask for a cinematographer she liked to be hired to help her look good on screen.

Audiences proved that the producer had no reason to be worried about Leslie not doing well in a comedy, with over $1 million being brought in during its initial release.

Leslie followed this movie up by directing himself in George Bernard Shaw’s classic movie, Pygmalion (1938)

Up next for Spring of Bette, I will be writing about another one of her less-familiar movies, A Working Man, where she was in full blonde mode.

Here is the complete list of movies I will be watching during this feature:

It’s Love I’m After (April 15th)

A Working Man (April 17th)

Another Man’s Poison (April 23th)

Dark Victory (April 30rd)

Jezebel (May 1)

Dangerous (May 7)

The Letter (May 12)

Of Human Bondage (May 21)

Now, Voyager (May 28)


Additional sources and resources

https://www.tcm.com/articles/92525/its-love-im-after

https://www.goldderby.com/gallery/best-bette-davis-movies-ranked/bette-davis-movies-ranked-all-about-eve/

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A little about Bette Davis as I start my Spring of Bette and her connection to the small, rural area I live in

This spring, I am watching and writing about Bette Davis movies, and I thought I’d kick it off with a post about Bette herself.

I don’t know why it has taken me so long to watch Bette Davis movies, considering her connection to the area I live in.

Bette Davis’s daughter, B.D. (Barbara Davis) Sherry Hyman used to own and live on a farm about 30 minutes from where I live now. Sadly, Bette did not have a good relationship with her daughter after the daughter wrote two scathing books about Bette.

If you are of a certain age, you may remember the books and the fallout from them in the 1980s.

I personally didn’t pay attention to celebrity drama when I was a child, so I didn’t know about it until recently.

I’ll get to that a little further in the post, but for now, let’s start at the beginning of Bette’s life.

Hadley Hall Meares wrote this for Vanity Affair in 2020, “Opinions? Bette Davis had a few. Born Ruth Elizabeth Davis in 1908, the legendary movie star was a tireless perfectionist and workaholic with little patience for those who did not share her vision. Consequently, her 1962 autobiography The Lonely Life and its 1987 follow-up, This ‘N That, are not short of opinions—many hard-edged, but a few remarkably tender. As her autobiographies prove, there was so much more to Davis’s wild life even than what we saw in 2017’s Feud, which charted her fabled dispute with co-star Joan Crawford.”

Bette was born to Ruth (Favor) and Harlow Morrell Davis. When she was seven years old, her father divorced her mother, and her mother raised Bette and her younger daughter Barbara on her own.

Bette began acting in school productions at the Cushing Academy in Massachusetts in her teens. She then did a summer in a small theater in Rochester, New York, before moving to New York City, where she attended the John Murray Anderson/Robert Milton School of Theatre and Dance. In 1929, she made her stage debut at Greenwich Village’s Provincetown Playhouse in The Earth Between.

Her first Broadway appearance was at the age of 21 in the comedy Broken Dishes. Her first movie appearance was a very small role in 1931’s Bad Sister with Hollywood’s Universal Pictures. In 1932, though she landed a deal with Warner Brothers and her career took off, with her breakout film being The Man Who Played God. After that she filmed 14 films over the next three years! They sure turned them out back then!

Bette was blonde when she first started out, by the way. Her hair was naturally a honey blonde but studio executives made it very blonde in the early 30s, which she didn’t like. Gradually, her hair darkened, or she darkened it to become the familiar brunette we saw later in her career.

In 1934, Bette was loaned to RKO Pictures for Of Human Bondage, a drama based on a novel by W. Somerset Maugham and co-starring British actor Leslie Howard. This movie brought Davis her first Oscar nomination.

Bette’s performance in the movie as “the vulgar, cold-hearted waitress Mildred” would kick off many roles in her career as strong-willed, sometimes unlikable women. Many people interpreted who Bette was in real life based on the roles she played.

Over a career that spanned 60 years Bette made a long list of well-acclaimed films, including All About Eve, Whatever Happened To Baby Jane?, and Dark Victory.

She won her first Academy Award in 1935 for playing a troubled actress in Dangerous. Her second was for Jezebel in 1938. She was nominated eight more times but never won another one.

Bette was high praised by many of her peers with exception to one — her nemesis and co-star from Whatever Happened to Baby Jane? Joan Crawford — who said these following things about her:

“I’m the quiet one and Bette’s explosive. I have discipline, she doesn’t.”

“She has a cult, and what the hell is a cult except a gang of rebels without a cause. I have fans. There’s a big difference.”

“Sure, she stole some of my big scenes, but the funny thing is, when I see the movie again, she stole them because she looked like a parody of herself, and I still looked like something of a star.”

The pair had a hate/hate relationship for years with Bette saying this about Joan when she died: “You should never say bad things about the dead, you should only say good… Joan Crawford is dead. Good.”

Bette certainly acted confident, bold, and mouthy most of the time, but even she had doubts at times.

According to the site Golden Derby, Bette was once so worried about her career she took an ad out in Variety magazine: “Mother of three 10, 11 and 15-Divorcee. American. Thirty years’ experience as an actress in motion pictures. Mobile still and more affable than rumor would have it. Wants steady employment in Hollywood. Has had Broadway. References upon request.”

Bette was married four times. She married Harmon Nelson in 1932 and they divorced in 1938. She married Arthur Farnsworth in 1940 and that marriage lasted three years before Farnsworth tragically died in a freak accident.

Her next marriage was to William Grant Sherry, and was for five years. Her last was to Gary Merrill, which lasted the longest but was also said to be violent, bitter, and full of domestic violence.

She had Barbara “B.D.”, with Sherry and adopted two children, Michael and Margot, with Merrill. Margot was discovered to be brain damaged at 3 and Bette put her in a special home, but still supported her financially, and often brought her home for long periods for visits with family.

With Bette’s permission, B.D. married Jeremy Hyman when B.D. was only 16 and Jeremy was 29. The  marriage lasted for more than 50 years but many say it was the husband who turned B.D. against her mother. Jeremy died in 2017.

What I feel bad about is that Barbara, B.D., she calls herself a pastor but still publicly shredded Bette in two different books. Maybe Bette was a narcissist and crazy, but the best thing might have been not to write a book about it all, and instead given all that hatred and bitterness to God. That’s just my opinion, of course.

Bette and B.D. during better days.

Before writing the books, Barbara commended her mother for how she raised her when she was younger and in a 60-Minute  interview said she’d adopted some of those principals for raising her own son. After the first book came out, she tried to explain in interviews that her relationship with her mother was difficult and that was what the books were about, but she also went on talk shows and just verbally eviscerated her mother’s reputation.

I watched one where she even pulled her oldest son into the action, and he described things he said Bette had done to him when he was visiting her.

B.D. received a lot of condemnation about the timing of the release of the first book because Bette had had a mastectomy and suffered a stroke not long before. Shortly after that she broke her hip. Bette’s assistant later wrote a book where she said she and Bette’s lawyers tried to keep the news of the book from her because she was still trying to heal from surgery.

Bette with B.D.

When she did find out, she was shocked, devastated, and felt deeply betrayed by the book.

“Nothing,” Bette’s assistant, Kathyrn Sermak told Vanity Fair in 2017 when her book Miss D and Me came out, “nothing compared to the betrayal of B.D.’s book. That broke her heart.”

Sermak said cinematic portrayals of Bette are inaccurate.

“I will always be grateful to Ryan Murphy for introducing [Davis and Crawford] to a new generation,” Sermak told Vanity Fair about the movie about Bette’s relationship with Joan Crawford. But that Davis is “not the woman I was on 10 years of film sets with. Miss Davis never behaved on film sets like that. She never yelled, she never screamed—at least not around me.”

Bette felt so deeply betrayed by B.D.’s book that she disinherited her from her will. I also can’t imagine why Barbara felt she needed to write another one after writing one already. More money I supposed.

Bette  divided her estate between her adopted son Michael Merrill and Sermak, with stipulations that her son take care of her adopted daughter Margo.

Bette also wrote a message to B.D. in her autobiography, written two years before she died, and in part of it she stated:

“As you ended your letter in My Mother’s Keeper – it’s up to you now, Ruth Elizabeth – I am ending my letter to you the same way: It’s up to you now, Hyman.

Ruth Elizabeth

P.S. I hope someday I will understand the title My Mother’s Keeper. If it refers to money, if my memory serves me right, I’ve been your keeper all these many years. I am continuing to do so, as my name has made your book about me a success.”

B.D. once said she wrote the book to get her mother’s attention so they would talk things out. Trust me, there are better ways to do that, and it didn’t work. The two never spoke again.

Before their relationship took a nosedive, Bette frequently visited B.D. and her sons in our tiny, rural area. There are old newspaper articles quoting people from the community I went to high school in who met her when she either visited their store or their motel. She rarely stayed with B.D. because of the friction between them.

“She looked and acted in real life like she did in the movies,” the owner of a local market told a local newspaper. “She was very straightforward, and there was no doubt that when  she said something, it was what she meant.”

The local motel where Bette stayed when she visited her daughter. The motel is no longer there.

He remembered Bette being driven around the area in a chauffeured limousine and that she once came into the sporting goods store he used to own to buy a .22-caliber rifle. He said he heard a woman say her mother would be paying for the gun and when he looked up, Bette Davis was standing there.

The owner of a local hotel called Bette “pushy and possessive.” He said she and her daughter, son-in-law, and grandson came in for dinner one night and the grandson sat on his dad’s cowboy hat. The owner’s dad scolded the child, and Bette told the owner off.

“Bette told him to shut up.”

So, maybe the real Bette was a little bit like her on-screen characters after all.

There are a ton of great movies of Bette’s to watch, but for this particular series, I have chosen the following movies:

It’s Love I’m After (April 15th)

A Working Man (April 17th)

Another Man’s Poison (April 23th)

Dark Victory (April 30rd)

Jezebel (May 1)

Dangerous (May 7)

The Letter (May 12)

Of Human Bondage (May 21)

Now, Voyager (May 28)

These are subject to change depending on what life events pop up between now and the end of May.

I’ve already watched The Bride Came C.O.D. and All About Eve and written about them on the blog.

Have you ever watched Bette Davis? Which movies did you see her in?

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Sources and additional resources:

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2020/11/bette-davis-autobiography-feud#:~:text=Davis%20could%20be%20equally%20complementary,recalls%20in%20This%20’N%20That:

https://www.biography.com/actors/bette-davis

https://www.goldderby.com/gallery/best-bette-davis-movies-ranked/bette-davis-movies-ranked-the-private-lives-of-elixabeth-and-essex/

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/story/joan-crawford-bette-davis-baby-jane-biography

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Sunday Bookends: Gladys Taber, Heidi, and other relaxing books and Bette Davis movies

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

This past week was semi-eventful but mostly errands and trips to pick up either glasses or medicine for the kitten who was sprayed by a skunk and then developed an eye infection. I wrote about that in my post yesterday.

There were a couple trips to my parents as well, mainly to help my mom while my dad went to various appointments and to clean the house a little. My parents live about seven minutes away, so it wasn’t too much of a drive at least. The weather was also very nice yesterday when we went to visit, if not a little chilly.

Little Miss had a friend over to visit, and they had fun dressing up in the same outfit since they both have similar-looking glasses now. They also had a lot of fun jumping off the railing of my parents’ deck, and I just hoped they wouldn’t break anything. Luckily, they did not.

I have not broken my book-buying ban for this month but I am in possession of two new Nancy Drew books. My husband found them at a local thrift store. They are from the Nancy Drew Girl Detective series from the early 2000s and are written in the first person. Not sure what I’ll think of them, but I have a lot of books ahead of them to read first.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

In Progress

I am slow reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month. I am, of course, in April now. The book starts with April and my copy (used and in good shape) arrived two days before the beginning of April. I thought that was great timing!

I’ve already marked so much in the book that I have enjoyed.



I am also continuing to read Damsel in Distress by P.G. Wodehouse and Heidi by Johanna Spyri. I will finish both of them this week.

Up Soon

 Up next, I am reading A Caribbean Mystery by Agatha Christie as part of the Christie Challenge for 2026.

I am also looking forward to a Murder She Wrote book, Aloha Betrayal, sometime in April, but then I also remembered I wanted to read The Enchanted April this month so we will see which one comes first.

What The Family is Reading

 

Little Miss and I started Heidi this past week and I think she will like it.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

This past week I watched the British sitcom from the 70s, Two’s Company with Elaine Stritch and ….. some British guy I don’t know the name of. Okay. I looked it up. It’s Donald Sinden. It’s such a funny and entertaining show.

I also watched the 1937 movie It’s Love I’m After with Bette Davis, Leslie Howard, and Olivia De Haviland. It was so funny. I am so glad I found it while looking for Bettie Davis movies to watch this spring. I was going to watch mainly her well-known movies but decided to watch some lesser-known ones to start, ones where she was just starting out, and I am glad I did. I also watched another one called A Working Man from 1938 and it was great too. I’ll be writing about both later this week.

I watched one called Payment on Demand with Bette Davis earlier in the week and didn’t enjoy it. I don’t think I’ll be writing about that one.

I watched a ton of Bluey with Little Miss and her friend last night.

What I’ve Been Writing

Last week on the blog I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

I’ve been listening to the Jack Benny Show when I go to bed at night.

Recent Blog Posts I Enjoyed

Photos From Last Week

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night, but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


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Saturday Afternoon Chat: Spring is struggling to start and the skunk-sprayed cat saga continues

The neighbor’s forsythia bush bloomed this week, and our son and I worried that the frost that came the next day might kill it. At first, it looked like it had, but today more buds came out on not only it but the lilac bush in the backyard and many other trees around our house.

Yes, frost in early April. I am among those who are depressed about it being so cold in spring, but I remember the year we moved here, there was snow on the ground in May.

Talk about a depressing sight! I’ll take the up and down temperatures for now over snow, but my sinuses, specifically my inner ear, are not pleased with the roller coaster weather changes that have been happening for more than a month now.

We’ve gone from 30-degree temps to temps in the 70s from one day to the next some weeks. It’s also been very gloomy, with the sun often hiding behind clouds.

Today, however, we do have some sun, and it will be getting up into the 50s. In addition to the forsythia, there are daffodils growing up at my neighbors’ too.

Their bushes and flowers are so far away from their house due to their absolutely huge front yard that they really can’t see or enjoy the flowers or bush that pop up in the spring anyhow so we enjoy them for them.

With spring weather comes skunk mating season, of course, and with skunk mating season comes more skunks in our yard which is probably why our youngest cat, Cass, was sprayed last Friday, as I mentioned in my post last week. We didn’t realize until a couple days later that the skunk probably got him in the eye and we only realized this when his right eye started gooping up with infection.  

The vet was nice enough to mail us medicine so we wouldn’t have to make the 45-minutes drive north but my Thursday Cass’s second eye was infected and by Friday the medicine had not arrived, so we headed to the vet to pick up an extra tube.

Between his nightly crying that started before the skunk incident, and now this, Cass is a bit of a handful, but he loves the kids and enjoys curling up with them and they love him as well. At first his adoration was for Little Miss but earlier today he saw The Boy in the kitchen window and came running to try to get to him, just at the sight of him.

He’s not a big fan of me anymore because I am the one who has to wipe his eye or put the medicine in.

Last weekend we went to my parents for Easter Sunday and The Husband hid some eggs for Little Miss to find.

I’m not sure how much longer that tradition will last since she will be 12 this year, but I am enjoying it while I can.

This upcoming week won’t be super busy, that I know of. I will be sitting with Mom one day since Dad has a doctor’s appointment and will take Little Miss to her art class on Friday. That’s another 45-minute drive because as I have mentioned more than once on this blog, it seems just about everything is a 45-minute drive from where we live.

I didn’t do as well this week with staying off social media. I wasn’t on Instagram a ton, but I was on it more than I wanted to be.  I barely go on Facebook anymore because of how awful it has become. I no longer see updates from my friends. Instead, they are always pushing pages at me that I have no interest in. Many of the stories on there are also AI generated and full of inaccuracies and sometimes out and out lies.

I’ve had a stuffed right ear for about a week or more so some mornings it was easier to sit for a while and scroll. However, there were a couple of mornings where I broke myself out of that habit and sat and read a book or devotional instead. Those mornings were much more relaxed, so I hope to do more of that this week.

I hope to do more “analogue” thinks like journaling, sketching, and reading in general this week. The most relaxed I feel is when I am drawing, coloring, or messing around with my junk journal while watching an old movie.

How was your week last week? Have anything exciting on tap for next week? Let me know in the comments!

Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot April 10

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

This week has been a bit crazy. Last Friday the youngest cat was sprayed with a skunk. It was an ordeal to get him bathed and then there is this whole thing with him crying in the middle of the night, waking The Husband, who has a hard time going back to sleep and is tired for work the next day.

On Monday his eye became goopy. On Tuesday we called the vet who said they could give us some ointment without us driving 45-minutes for him to be seen. They agreed to mail it but that didn’t happen until Wednesday.

Today the second eye became infected, so it looks like we have to drive to the vet tomorrow to get the ointment instead of waiting for the one they mailed to arrive. There are pros to living in a rural area but there are also a lot of cons.

Anyhow, without further ado….let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

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WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: Family Caregivers



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And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

Soma has a tutorial on making notepads and journals

Gail is loving her purple pants

The Cannary Family repaired the attic door and spruced it up

Cat is sharing about her March reads!

Nicole is talking about changes in her writing life

God’s Growing Graden is Sharing 15 Favorite Posts!

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My March Reading and Watching Wrap-up and April Hopefuls

March was a pretty good reading and watching month.

In March, I read or finished seven books:

The Tower Treasure by Franklin W. Dixon

The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgomery

Whispering Walls by Mildred Wirt

Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie

Return of the King by J.R.R. Tolkien

Crooked House by Agatha Christie

The Singing Tree by Kate Seredy.

Movies I watched:

Saving Grace

The Crystal Ball

It’s Tough to Be Famous

Libeled Lady

Eternally Yours

Another Thin Man

Her Cardboard Lover

Shows I watched:

The Puzzle Lady

All Creates Great and Small

The Knight of the Seven Kingdoms

Murder, She Wrote

Two’s Company

In April I plan to/hope to read:

Heidi by Johanna Spyri

The Caribbean Mystery by Agatha Christie

Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

A Damsel in Distress by P.G. Wodehouse

Murder, She Wrote: Aloha Betrayed by Donald Bain

Nancy Drew: Nancy’s Mysterious Letter by Carolyn Keene

I hope to watch:

Bette Davis movies for my Spring of Bette, including Now Voyager and Jezebel.

I’ve already watched It’s Love I’m After, The Working Man, and Another Man’s Poison for the feature.

How was your March, and what do you hope to read or watch in April?


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Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.

 Book Recommendation: Crooked House by Agatha Christie

That won’t make sense until you read the book, so here is a little background on this one, which does not feature one of Christie’s famous detectives.

This book is a standalone novel that starts with the main character Charles Hayward planning to marry Sophia Leonides who he met in Egypt toward the end of the war. They hang out while in Eqypt and correspond some afterward, but drift apart until he returns to England two years later. It’s after his return that he reads in the paper that Sophia’s grandfather has died. He knows it is her grandfather because she once told him all about her family.

“’We live in a crooked little house . . .’”

“I must have looked startled, for she seemed amused, and explained by elaborating the quotation. ‘And they all lived together in a little crooked house,’ That’s us. Not really such a little house either. But definitely crooked — running to gables and halftimbering!”

In this case the crooked little house quote is a play on the nursery rhyme “There Was a Crooked Little Man,” but I am not familiar with that nursery rhyme.

Due to the blitz, Sophia’s extended family was all living in the house with the patriarch, Aristide Leonides, a short Greek man who commanded a lot of presence. Her family includes her younger brother and sister, her parents, her uncle and an aunt by marriage, her grandfather, a great aunt, and a step-grandmother.”

Charles reaches out to her by telegram, and she asks to meet that night at a local restaurant. The connection they had two years ago is still strong, and he still wants to marry her, but she says she can’t marry him now, and maybe never. She believes her grandfather has been murdered, and she doesn’t want to ruin Charles’ reputation as a member of the Diplomatic Service because she feels certain the murder was committed by someone in her family.

The main suspect is her step-grandmother, Brenda, with the tutor for Sophia’s siblings a close second because the family believes the two were having an affair.

In the first part of the book, we get to know the entire family, and it isn’t very pretty. Many of them are selfish and bitter people looking out for themselves, and the ones who don’t seem that way may be putting on an act. Maybe even Sophia is putting on an act. Figuring out who committed the crime will baffle Charles and Scotland Yard, and when you get to the ending — oof. It’s definitely a plot twist, one I saw coming, but still had to find out how and why.

I would definitely recommend this one if you’ve never read Agatha before or even if you have. I think it’s one of her best, and I read today that she called it one of her favorites to write. It is definitely a book that will stick with you over the years, making you think (and shudder a bit) long after you’ve put it down.

Some quotes from it I enjoyed:

“Curious thing, rooms. Tell you quite a lot about the people who live in them.”

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“I think people more often kill those they love than those they hate. Possibly because only the people you love can really make life unendurable to you.”

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“I’ve never met a murderer who wasn’t vain… It’s their vanity that leads to their undoing, nine times out of ten. They may be frightened of being caught, but they can’t help strutting and boasting and usually they’re sure they’ve been far too clever to be caught.”

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“Murder, you see, is an amateur crime… One feels, very often, as though these nice ordinary chaps, had been overtaken, as it were, by murder, almost accidentally. They’ve been in a tight place, or they’ve wanted something very badly, money or a woman – and they’ve killed to get it. The brake that operates with most of us doesn’t operate with them… They continue to be aware that murder is wrong, but they do not feel it. I don’t think, in my experience, that any murderer has really felt remorse… Murderers are set apart, they are ‘different’ – murder is wrong – but not for them – for them it is necessary – the victim has ‘asked for it,’ it was ‘the only way.”

Sunday Bookends:Losing cell service at the Marie Antoinette, skunky cat, and Happy Easter!

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

First things first – He is risen! He is risen indeed! Happy Resurrection Sunday!

What a week last week was — or at least part of it.

I wrote about it on the blog yesterday for my Saturday Afternoon Chat but the gist of it was my husband had a wisdom tooth pulled under sedation at a dentist about 90-minutes away from where we live (it went very well), our youngest cat was sprayed with a skunk early Friday morning (he still stinks so bad after two baths), and Little Miss had nausea all week from possible food poisoning.

But then, to make the week a little better, Little Miss won a local Easter coloring contest from the small weekly newspaper in our county and received an absolutely huge Easter basket full of goodies yesterday.

We couldn’t even believe how big the basket was or how much stuff was in there. It was very kind of the newspaper to hold the contest and then provide such amazing gifts to the winners.

The owner/publisher of the paper is our neighbor but “an independent board of residents” judges the contest, he said, so he and his wife (who also works at the paper) were pleasantly surprised to see Little Miss win the first prize.

While picking up the gift basket, I apologized to him for stinking up the neighborhood since it was our cat that got sprayed, but he said he didn’t smell it luckily. He asked which cat it was and when I told him it was the youngest he said he feels bad for Cass (the youngest) because he keeps trying to get in fights with their old cat Oscar and Oscar has like 20 pounds on him.

“He keeps beating Cass up,” my neighbor said.

I told our neighbor that Cass is young and has to learn his place and stay in his own territory, so I guess he will have to learn not to push Oscar’s buttons. Then Oscar won’t have to beat him up. Ha.

We both did say we hope Oscar doesn’t hurt him too bad, though and I’ll be keeping more of an eye on him so he doesn’t go up there. Our properties run right together, though, so it might be hard to do. So far, Cass hasn’t looked beat up so I don’t think Oscar’s aim is to hurt him, but to tell him to head back home.

Yesterday The Husband was driving from the town where he works to the town where our closest Aldi is to pick our groceries when he called me.

As he usually does on this drive, he said to be about 10 minutes in, “Okay, I have to let you go. I’m getting to the Marie Antoinette, and I’m going to lose you.”

Non-locals would probably be confused by this. He’s almost to Marie Antoinette? What does that even mean? Wasn’t she the French queen who was guillotined? Yes, she was, and she’s also the French queen whose servants and fellow noblemen took a ship to the United States when the revolution started heating up to set up a community for her in what is now Pennsylvania. Many of those servants stayed in our area even after she was killed, while some returned to France.

Because there was a connection to her, though, there are sites in our area named after her — including an overlook called the Marie Antoinette overlook and an inn called the Marie Antoinette Inn.

My husband’s cell service disappears at the Marie Antoinette Overlook and then comes back about ten minutes later, but remains spotty until he reaches the town where the Aldi is. That’s why he announces he is at the Marie Antoinette, and he has to go.

Why did I explain all this? I have no idea. I just found it an interesting way to tie in our local history.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

The Singing Tree by Kate Seredy

In Progress

Right now, I am reading Damsel in Distress by P.G. Wodehouse (so much fun) and Heidi by Johanna Spyri.

I’m reading Heidi with Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs.

I am also reading Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis and Still Meadows by Gladys Tabor, which is a book with chapters for each month so I am probably going to read a chapter a month throughout the year.

Up Soon

Up next, I am reading A Caribbean Mystery by Agatha Christie as part of the Christie Challenge for 2026.

I am also looking forward to a Murder She Wrote book, Aloha Betrayal, sometime in April.

What The Family is Reading

The Husband just finished Hamnet. He loved it.

Little Miss and I are going to start Heidi this week as she said that sounded more interesting than the other book I was going to read to her for school.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

This past week I watched Shadow of the Thin Man and a lot of Murder, She Wrote.

I also watched the season finale of A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms with The Boy.

What I’ve Been Writing

Last week on the blog I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

I am listening to The Best of Jeeves and Wooster on Audible. I don’t do well with audiobooks, though, so we will see how it goes.

This for Easter:

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link-party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date. Sunday Bookends with Boondock Ramblings and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.