This is the debut of a new feature on my blog called What to Capture. This feature will offer tips to moms who want to document their child or children's life through photography.
I am aiming these posts at moms because often it is the mom who enjoys capturing the everyday life of her children but these tips, of course, can be for dads as well.
My main message behind each of these posts can easily be described in four words:
don't forget the details, or if you are into non-catchy acronyms: DFTD.
This week's What to Capture focus is birthday parties.
When photographing your child's next birthday party don't forget the details you might want to remember later. Will you want to remember him or her blowing out the candles on the cake? Certainly! Opening gifts? Yes! Playing with his friends? Of course!
But don't forget to get in close too. Capture her smile as she sees the cake. Photograph her hands unwrapping a gift so you never forget how little she was. Document him laughing with his friends so he and his friends have memories of their friendships.
Do you want photos of the streamers or balloons or other decorations? Probably not, unless they have some sort of emotional connection to that time in your child's life - for example he loved batman and the piñata was a huge Batmobile
Of course you don't want to miss out on experiencing the day yourself so if you want to live more in the moment hire a professional photographer to photograph those moments or ask an extended family member or friend to help you document the day. If you do hire a photographer don't be afraid to jot down the checklist of images you are interested in and politely ask the photographer to capture those specific moments or items. Many photographers will not mind if you offer them your ideas for what moments are important because they understand these are your memories.
If you are the photographer for the day, making a checklist for yourself is always helpful to ensure you don't forget any important moments.
And, remember, if you take the photos yourself, don't forget to put the camera down periodically and remember to live in the moment, soaking in the feelings you have as you watch your child celebrate turning a year older.
Birthday party photo checklist suggestions:
- The guests arriving;
- The children playing;
- Your child blowing out the candle;
- Wider photo of your child preparing to blow out candles so you can capture faces of the guests;
- The decorations, if they have an emotional significance for that particular time in your child's life.
- Your child opening a few gifts;
- Your child's reaction to gifts;
- Your child playing games;
- A group photo of your child and their guests
- You and your spouse and any siblings with the birthday child.'