Every other Tuesday I will be offering practical photography tips for moms who don't consider themselves a photographer but still want to visually record the everyday lives of their children. These are merely tips or suggestions, not rules to follow. You should record your photographic memories for you in your own way and hopefully these suggestions will help give you ideas on how to do that.
If you are hoping to grab realistic, authentic images of your children, one tip I have is to avoid always asking them to look at the camera.
I very rarely ask my children to look at the camera when I am photographing them. I prefer any image I take of a child to be as natural as possible, capturing their real personality. From my experience, children who are asked to look at a camera become self conscious or goofy, which sometimes is the enemy of authenticity.
Think about all the thoughts that race through your mind when someone suggests you look at a camera. Do you find your smiles and reaction forced? That reaction can be the same for children, though they might not think as much about what their hair looks like or how fat they look in their jeans. Instead, children think about putting on a show or being as silly as possible. Silly photographs and expressions are fun for a few photographs, but they won't always show your child's true personality.
You will actually find in most cases that a child will look at you even without you asking and that's when you click the shutter.
Always be ready for the perfect photograph and perfect moment when you're taking time to try to capture photographs of your children.
Photographing them as they are engaged in an activity they enjoy, or interacting with someone they love, can create more authentic images of your children and also keep them more relaxed. Their expressions when they do look at you will be less forced and more natural.
Some ideas for activities to help keep your child relaxed and capture authentic images, maybe even a few looking at the camera, include:
- Taking a walk in a park;
- playing at a playground
- jumping in the Fall leaves
- interacting with their friends or a family member
- place a loved one behind you as you photograph
Lisa R. Howeler is a wife and mom living in a small town located in northern Pennsylvania, less than a mile from the New York State border. She is a photographer, writer, chocolate lover, and one of those Jesus freaks your mama warned you about. Find her online at www.lisahoweler.com; www.instagram.com/lisahoweler; and Facebook, www.facebook.com/lisahoweler.